33 Conversations Podcast is a space where mission-driven founders are witnessed in their becoming. Not a podcast about success stories, this is real-time reflection: the messy middle, the identity shifts, and the truth behind building something that matters.
33 Conversations Podcast is a space where mission-driven founders are witnessed in their becoming. Not a podcast about success stories, this is real-time reflection: the messy middle, the identity shifts, and the truth behind building something that matters.
33 Conversations: Episode – Becoming the High Value Woman with Darla Ridilla
Feeling like you keep giving more than you get in relationships? Like you’re shrinking just to keep the peace? Yeah, Darla’s been there. And in this episode, she brings the fire and the truth.
Darla Ridilla is a relationship coach who’s walked through the wreckage of narcissistic abuse and came out the other side not just healed — but transformed. Now she helps high-achieving women stop editing themselves just to be loved.
This conversation is raw. It’s a mirror. It’s a wake-up call.
We talk about:
* Setting standards (not settling)
* Breaking trauma bonds without breaking yourself
* The real cost of staying small in love
* Why solitude isn’t loneliness — it’s power
* What it means to become magnetic without abandoning yourself
If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much,” Darla will remind you — you’re not. You’re everything.
This isn’t relationship advice. This is identity evolution.
Chapters
00:00 | Welcome to the Unknown01:41 | Darla’s Journey: From Trauma to Empowerment03:36 | Standards > Settling05:51 | Narcissists, Patterns & Pain07:59 | The Aha Moment: Healing Begins12:22 | Building High-Value Connections14:50 | The Grief of Letting Go18:00 | Solitude as Sacred Space20:07 | From Lonely to Rooted23:25 | Self-Reflection is a Superpower29:03 | Becoming Her: The Empowered Future35:25 | Final Thoughts: Change is the Way
🔥 Darla’s MissionI help high-achieving women stop shrinking in relationships and start showing up as their full, unfiltered, magnetic selves, so they can create connection without self-abandonment.
📡 Connect with Darla:🌐 highvaluewoman.info📩 highvaluewoman7@gmail.com
Ready to stop reacting to chaos and start creating from it?This episode will shake your story and offer you something more honest and way more powerful.
▶️ Listen now.