What if you woke up every morning with a crystal-clear picture of where you're headed—not just in your career, but in your relationships, health, and the impact you want to leave on the world?

In today’s episode, we’re diving into the power of a Vision Statement—a personal roadmap that simplifies decisions, boosts motivation, and ensures your daily actions are aligned with the life you truly want.

By the end of this episode, you'll have a first draft of your personal vision statement—one that fires you up and keeps you on track, day after day.

🔹 Why clarity matters more than productivity
🔹 How to create a powerful vision statement in 3 steps
🔹 How to stay motivated and refine your vision over time
🔹 Two hands-on experiments to help you uncover what truly matters

Your vision statement is your compass, your guiding star, helping you stay on course—even when the path isn’t perfectly clear. Let’s get started!

Key Takeaways:

🌟 1. Why You Need a Clear Vision Before Focusing on Productivity

• Stephen Covey: “If the ladder is not leaning against the right wall, every step we take just gets us to the wrong place faster.”
• Without a clear destination, we end up reacting to life instead of shaping it intentionally.
• Even small misalignments in direction (like a plane being a few degrees off course) can lead to entirely different destinations over time.
• My 5-hour workday forced me to prioritize what matters most—a vision statement makes sure my time is spent on what truly counts.

✍️ 2. How to Create Your Personal Vision Statement

A vision statement is not just a list of goals—it’s a detailed picture of who you want to become and how you want to live.

Here’s a 3-step process to create yours:

Step 1: Organize Your Vision into 3 Big Categories

1️⃣ Mind (Work, creativity, learning, personal growth)
2️⃣ Body (Health, fitness, energy, recovery)
3️⃣ Soul (Relationships, faith, giving back, community)

➡ Brainstorm your biggest aspirations for each category. Don’t overthink where things go—just get them down on paper!

Step 2: Define Your Identity & Virtues

• James Clear: “Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.”
• Instead of just setting goals, identify who you want to become:
  • Example (Health): I am a Spartan Athlete. → Now I ask, How does a Spartan eat? Train? Recover?
  • Example (Relationships): My core virtue is Presence. → Now I ask, How can I be more present with my family today?
    
    

➡ Define an identity & key virtue for each category. This makes your vision real and actionable.

Step 3: Write Your 1-5-10 Year Vision in Present Tense

• Don’t write “I want to…,” write as if you’re already living it.
• Example: “We have a weekly date night full of adventure—paddleboarding, hiking, and exploring new places. We read books on marriage and discuss them over coffee.”
• The more specific and vivid, the more powerful it becomes.
  
  

➡ Write your vision for 1, 5, and 10 years into the future—and read it daily!

🏆 3. How to Stay Motivated & Bring Your Vision to Life

• Measure progress backward, not forward. Instead of focusing on how far you have to go, celebrate how far you’ve come.
• Review your vision statement daily. (I keep mine open on my computer every morning.)
• Track wins and milestones. Write down 3 wins every day, no matter how small.
• Stay flexible. Your vision will evolve—refine it every few months!

➡ “Our ideals are more like guiding stars than distant shores.” – Tal Ben-Shahar

Try These 2 Hands-On Experiments

🔬 EXPERIMENT #1: The Eulogy Exercise (Long-Term Alignment: Identity, Values, Legacy)

• Picture yourself at your own funeral (5 years from now). What would your loved ones say about you?
• What would your spouse, kids, friends, and colleagues say about the person you were?
• This exercise helps clarify your true priorities and who you want to become.
• Use this to define your identity in your vision statement.

📌 Ask yourself:

• How do I want to be remembered?
• What impact do I want to have on my family, friends, and community?
• Am I living in alignment with these values today?

📝 Example:
Instead of just saying “I want to be a great dad,” I define it as:
💡 “I am a Virtuous Family Patriarch. I am present, I listen deeply, I prioritize meaningful time with my kids.”

🔬 EXPERIMENT #2: The Ideal Day Exercise (Short-Term Clarity: Daily Routines & Work-Life Balance)

• Imagine you could design your perfect day (with no time or money limitations).
• Walk through your morning, workday, relationships, and free time—what does it look like?
• This helps identify how you want to structure your life and what small changes you can make NOW.

📌 Ask yourself:

• What time do I wake up? What’s my morning routine?
• How do I spend time with my family?
• What kind of work brings me energy?
• What do I do for fun, health, and growth?

📝 Example:
For me, the 5-hour workday has allowed me to:
✅ Have 3-4 workouts per week with my wife.
✅ Eat 2-3 meals a day with my family.
✅ Be off work by 3:00 PM to greet my kids at the bus stop.
✅ Keep a weekly “no-miss” date night with my wife.

➡ This isn’t luck—it’s intentionality. What small steps can you take right now?

Final Thoughts & Recap

Today, we covered:
✔ Why You Need a Vision Statement – Without clarity, you risk climbing the wrong ladder.
✔ How to Create Your Vision – Using the Mind, Body, Soul framework, defining your identity & virtues, and writing in present tense.
✔ How to Stay Motivated – Reviewing your vision daily, measuring progress, and staying flexible.

🚀 Your Next Steps:
1️⃣ Complete the Eulogy Exercise – Get clear on your identity & values.
2️⃣ Do the Ideal Day Exercise ...