Have you ever met someone who seems to have no problem saying yes to so many commitments and serving in so many ways that you could never see yourself living up to that level? What if the ability to say yes to reasonable invitations increases as you...wait for it...say yes to invitations. In this episode Amber and Todd explore the connection between their approach to parenting and their approach to their new ward and community. Is it possible to get to a general authority level of community involvement in your own life? Is it a steady trajectory, or more of a trend with plenty of ups and downs? How can one start to challenge one's current capacity to help it grow? All this and a report on the fallout from being honest about the podcast. We invite you to apply what you learn here. Will you apply it (say yes)? This episode is rated G, which means you can quote it in #GeneralConference when you reach the optimal level of saying yes to reasonable invitations as a result of our amazing advice.