Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, things just aren’t landing?
You’re showing up, doing the work, saying you’re ready for more, but deep down, something feels off?
In this episode, I’m getting brutally honest about the ways we cockblock our own success.
Not because we’re lazy, not because we’re unmotivated, but because fear, control, and self-protection have quietly become our comfort zones.
We’re diving into:
How fear shows up in your nervous system and tricks you into playing small
Why control is really just fear of being blindsided
How childhood conditioning teaches you to shrink to feel safe
The real cost of self-protection and what it steals from your potential
What rebuilding self-trust actually looks like, one decision at a time
This isn’t a fluffy “just trust the process” conversation.
It’s about learning to sit in uncertainty without spiralling, learning to move without proof, and finally realising that safety doesn’t come from control, it comes from self-trust.
Because when you stop blocking your own opportunities, you stop living in survival and start leading yourself from expansion.
✨ If you’ve been feeling stuck, waiting to feel ready, or doubting whether you’re capable of more, this episode will hit home.
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