Episode 7: Not All Resistance Is Bad, The Gentle Art of Holding Your Emotions
Welcome back to All the Feels, sweet friends. đź’›
In today’s episode, Lauren Carlisle Brown takes you into the second part of the Emotional Flow Map: resistance, and why it’s not the villain it’s often made out to be.
Resisting emotions is one of the most misunderstood parts of emotional life. Many of us have been taught that pushing feelings away is “wrong” or “unhealthy,” but Lauren offers a compassionate reframe: resistance can be harmful when it’s unconscious… and incredibly supportive when it’s intentional.
This episode explores how culture, family systems, and personal conditioning teach us to resist our emotions, why resisting becomes a reflex, and how conscious resistance can actually be a form of wisdom, stability, and self-protection.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
When Conscious Resistance Is Helpful
Lauren shares three moments when resisting on purpose is the right move:
• Functional moments: When life requires steadiness and presence
• Boundaried moments: When the environment or people around you aren't safe for emotional vulnerability
• Caring moments: When pausing your emotion allows you to show up for someone else
This isn’t avoidance, it’s emotional discernment.
Conscious resistance says: “I feel this. I’ll tend to it later.”
That’s emotional maturity, not emotional suppression.
A Practice for Your Week
When you notice yourself resisting a feeling, simply name it:
 “I’m holding something right now. I’ll come back to it.”
Then, when you have the capacity, return to it gently.
This small act builds deep emotional trust and self-connection.
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