Episode 5: The Emotional Flow Map: 4 Ways We Deal with our Feelings

Hello, sweet friends, welcome back to All the Feels with Lauren Carlisle Brown, your emotions coach.

In this episode, Lauren introduces a simple but powerful framework she calls The Emotional Flow Map — four natural ways humans are wired to handle emotions: react, resist, avoid, and allow.

Instead of labeling some “good” and others “bad,” Lauren invites you into a softer, more honest relationship with your emotional life. You’ll learn why all four responses exist for a reason, how each one can be supportive and harmful, and why shame has no place in emotional work.

This episode is all about awareness without judgment — seeing your emotional autopilot clearly, so you can eventually choose something new with compassion, not force.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The Emotional Flow Map: react, resist, avoid, and allow
  
• Why none of these responses are morally “wrong” — they all make sense
  
• The difference between unconscious reacting and conscious emotional expression
  
• How resisting and avoiding can sometimes be wise, and when they start to create problems
  
• What true emotional allowing looks like (and why it’s not a gold-star requirement)
  
• A gentle awareness practice to help you notice your default patterns

A Simple Awareness Practice from the Episode

This week, Lauren invites you to gently watch yourself with curiosity:

• When a feeling pops up, do you tend to react, resist, avoid, or allow?
  
• Are certain emotions easier to allow than others?
  
• Where do you feel small irritations or stress in your body

No fixing. No forcing. Just noticing.Awareness without judgment is where real emotional change begins.

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