78: Doctors, if you’ve just had a big loss or rejection, listen to this

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Am I doing it wrong? For Doctors by Doctors.

Doctor Becc and Kristeen Barker

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In "Am I Doing It Wrong?” Doctor Becc & Kristeen Barker have the vulnerable conversations all doctors need to remind us "You're not crazy, life as a doctor is". You'll feel seen & connected again & you'll also get actionable strategies to be able to show up as your favourite version of you as a doctor regardless of the daily challenges. Dr Kristeen Barker, nephrologist at Alfred Health, runs online medical education courses for physicians & trainees. Doctor Becc (Dr Rebecca Nothrop) is coach & host of Dare, Darling—a transformative group coaching program for doctors who are people-pleasers.

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78: Doctors, if you’ve just had a big loss or rejection, listen to this

Am I doing it wrong? For Doctors by Doctors.

28 minutes 35 seconds

6 months ago

78: Doctors, if you’ve just had a big loss or rejection, listen to this

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Hello our beautiful friends and doctor humans!

This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt like their story is falling apart. Whether you’ve experienced a personal loss, faced professional rejection, or find yourself sitting in the middle of something that just hurts, we’re right here with you.

Today we’re unpacking that gut-wrenching moment when you don’t get what you wanted and the False Finality (thought error) that our brain creates.

We’ll explore why it feels like the end of the story (and why it isn’t), how to spot this mindset trap in real time, and how to open to the possibility that your heartbreak might actually be a plot twist… not a failure.

We’ve found - and we bet you have too - often a loss is actually a gain disguised as a loss in the moment.

We’re sharing our own stories, coaching insights, and powerful real-life moments from our doctor community to help you move through disappointment with more compassion, wisdom, and unshakable next-level confidence.

In this episode, we’ll uncover:

✨ Why not getting what you wanted can feel like the end of the story—and why that’s a lie

🌍 A heartfelt moment from our support peer group, where specialty rejection turned into hope

💔 Kristeen’s experience of personal loss and the unexpected growth it sparked

🧠 Why grief is valid but unnecessary suffering is optional—and how to tell the difference

🔄 How to stop judging a painful chapter as “the ending” and actively create an opportunity

If this episode speaks to you, we’d love to hear from you.

Share your story, send us a DM, or leave a review if this helped reframe something tough.

We love hearing from you.