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In the third part of the “Ask the Expert, Research Edition” mini-series, “Parenting is Hard,” Krissy Dilger of SRNA was joined by Barbara Babcock to further explore her research concerning the changing beliefs around parenting when a child has been diagnosed with a rare neuroimmune disorder. Barbara discussed how beliefs around being fair as a parent could change and the various sub-themes supporting this idea, including redefinition of fairness and the challenge of balancing attention among children [00:03:30]. She highlighted the impact of societal and historical contexts on parenting norms and the struggles parents face in managing new caregiving responsibilities and learning new skills [00:12:45]. The importance of redefining what it means to be a good parent in the context of a child with additional needs was emphasized throughout the episode [00:24:00].

Barbara Babcock works as a Family Therapist in a child and adolescent mental health outpatient unit in the United Kingdom's National Health Service. In her private practice, she works with individuals and couples who are navigating challenging health issues and wish to get their lives back. She obtained her Master of Science in Family Therapy from the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology, and Neuroscience at King's College London. Barbara also has a Master of Arts in Coaching Psychology/Psychological Coaching and her dissertation research focused on the impact that a systemic approach to coaching has on the wellbeing of adults who have a rare neuroimmune disorder and their primary caregivers. Previously, she was Chair of the Transverse Myelitis Society, from 2013 to 2016, and led their Family Weekend from 2015 to 2019, an event to support families who have a child/adolescent with a rare neuroimmune disorder to discover their potential through challenging outdoor activities. She had transverse myelitis in 2008 and is originally from Pennsylvania, USA. You can contact her at barbara@returntowellness.co.uk and her website is www.returntowellness.co.uk

00:00 Introduction

00:27 Meet the Expert: Barbara Babcock

01:38 Exploring Parental Beliefs and Fairness

03:37 Balancing Attention Among Children

07:49 Cultural and Societal Influences on Parenting

11:08 Challenges in Managing Illness and Fairness

19:37 Learning New Skills and Roles

25:52 Redefining Good Parenting

27:43 Conclusion