SURVIVING THE UNTHINKABLE – “He Stole My Innocence, But Not My Voice” | The Men’s Collective Podcast
What does it take for a man to face the darkest chapter of his life out loud and in front of the world?
In this raw and emotional episode of The Men’s Collective Podcast, author of Tarzan Loves Jane, John Comerford joins Wayno, Jamie, and Mikie live in the studio to share his story of survival after being raped at just 11 years old by a Catholic school Brother while a Priest stood by and watched.
This isn’t just an interview — it’s a conversation between men about truth, pain, and the long road to healing when the unthinkable happens and innocence is stolen.
John opens up about what really happened, how it shaped the man he became, and what it takes to find peace after carrying something so heavy for so long.
The panel dives deep into:
• The lasting trauma of childhood abuse
• How silence and shame crush men’s lives
• Rebuilding trust, faith, and identity
• The power of men speaking truth without fear
• Finding strength through vulnerability
It’s one of our most powerful and confronting episodes yet — honest, uncomfortable, and deeply human.
Because real men don’t run from hard stories — they face them together.
One man’s story of survival, truth, and healing after the unthinkable.
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The views expressed in this episode are those of the host and guests, not any organisation. Content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and may include explicit language or sensitive topics related to sexual abuse, trauma, and men’s mental health. Listener discretion is strongly advised. The hosts are not licensed professionals. Seek appropriate support if you or someone you know has experienced abuse.
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🎵 Music Used:
Intro Music – Beyond Horizon by ImagineAudio