Welcome to BARE Lifestyle podcast!
This podcast is a double production: BARE Lifestyle podcast and The Palmer Show podcast.
Join Mike and I in a conversation about the shame around kinks, fetishes and BDSM practices.
Timestamps:
2:00 - What are the misconceptions of kinks, fetishes and BDSM practices that contribute to the feeling of shame?
4:00 - Fear of being judged and not accepted if revealing our sexual preferences
6:00 - Privacy vs Taboo
7:30 - You have to decide where you draw the privacy line on social media
9:00 - The day I published my book I was so sick, I thought I'd die (read my book: Raising My Voice. The Memoir of an Immigrant)
10:00 - Identity shifts
10:50 - How the societal view on kink, fetishes and BDSM practices influences individual's shame about their own preference?
11:00 - Judgment and self judgments
12:30 - Have you ever felt shame around your kinks and fetishes?
16:00 - You could ignore your desires, but they never die
19:00 - What will have to be the requirement that a man will say ‘No’ to it?
21:45 - Take the BDSM test https://www.bdsmtest.org/
26:30 - How to ‘come out’ to your partners without experiencing shame?
28:35 - God did not put a desire in my heart to feel embarrassed, is there for me to have it
29:30 - How do you think religion and cultural beliefs impacted the shame associated with kinks and fetishes?
33:00 - Pleasure without consent is pain
34:00 - Finding the right support to heal trauma and deal with shame, guilt and fear
36:00 - Healing the trauma
37:00 - Is it easier to open up to my partner or my therapist?
42:00 - Everyone has a kink, but not explored it or express it
43:30 - How do men support each other?
45:00 - We are not all built for what’s expected of us as men/women
47:00 - Advice for those who struggle with shame about their kinks/fetishes.
47:30 - Book a FREE call and find out more about VIP weekends - Spark Your Inner Fire - https://calendly.com/simonaspark/sparkyourfire
49:00 - Best solution for you is the next available step out of your comfort zone
51:30 - It’s impossible to satisfy everyone, so mind as well, satisfy just yourself. Period.
53:48 - The End
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xo
Simona Spark