What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
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What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
You can find Dolly on Instagram @dolly_jones
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Keywords
parenting, motherhood, working parents, guilt, empathy, relationships, self-validation, motherhood ideals, joy in parenting, communication
The joy of being a working parent is often overshadowed by guilt and societal expectations.Successful working mothers often feel a sense of pride and accomplishment despite challenges.Conversations about parenting in the workplace are often avoided, leading to feelings of isolation.Empathy is crucial in understanding the experiences of working parents, both men and women.Guilt can be a red flag indicating a need for change or self-care in parenting.The invisible work of parenting often goes unrecognized but is essential for family well-being.Clear communication about responsibilities can alleviate resentment in parenting partnerships.The relationship dynamics between partners can significantly impact parenting experiences.Finding joy in work and parenting can lead to a more fulfilling life.
Summary
In this conversation, Dolly Jones discusses her journey to writing a book about the experiences of working parents, particularly mothers. She explores the joys and challenges of balancing work and family life, the societal pressures and guilt that often accompany motherhood, and the importance of empathy and communication in navigating these complexities. The discussion highlights the invisible labor of parenting, the need for shared responsibilities, and the significance of finding joy in both work and parenting. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the commonalities among parents and the importance of supporting one another in this journey.
Titles
Navigating the Complexities of Modern MotherhoodThe Hidden Joys of Working Parenthood
Sound bites
"Guilt doesn't enter my head.""We need to talk about it more.""I get to go to work."
Chapters
00:00 The Motivation Behind the Book06:23 The Joys and Challenges of Working Parenthood12:06 Empathy and Commonality in Parenting17:36 The Guilt of Motherhood23:24 Ending the Mother Wars28:52 The Importance of Conversations in Parenting34:22 The Joy of Work and Motherhood36:11 The Guilt of Working Mothers38:35 Childcare Choices and Societal Expectations39:00 The School Bag Dilemma43:49 Understanding Parental Responsibilities47:40 Communication in Parenting52:13 The Value of Caregiving53:46 Identity and Motherhood
Be a Happier Parent
What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
