What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
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What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
Ep 27: The Arguments Every Couple Should Have with Divorce Lawyer turned Couples Therapist Joanna Harrison
Be a Happier Parent
52 minutes
1 month ago
Ep 27: The Arguments Every Couple Should Have with Divorce Lawyer turned Couples Therapist Joanna Harrison
Check out Joanna's Website: www.joannaharrison.co.uk
Find me on Instagram @beahappierparent
Keywords
couples therapy, divorce lawyer, communication, relationship advice, arguments, parenting, emotional connection, intimacy, relationship dynamics, conflict resolution
Summary
In this conversation, Joanna Harrison, a former divorce lawyer turned couples therapist, discusses her journey and the insights she has gained about relationships. She emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding, and navigating the complexities of couple dynamics. Joanna outlines five essential arguments that all couples need to have, highlighting the significance of curiosity and negotiation in maintaining healthy relationships. The discussion also touches on the challenges of parenting and the balance between time spent together and apart.
Takeaways
Joanna transitioned from divorce law to couples therapy to focus on the emotional aspects of relationships.Couples therapy is not just about saving relationships; it's about exploring what comes next.Arguments in relationships can lead to growth and understanding.Communication is a continuous process that requires effort from both partners.Couples need to negotiate their roles and responsibilities to avoid conflict.Curiosity about each other's experiences is crucial for relationship health.It's important to show that you have your partner in mind during daily activities.Different parenting styles can lead to conflict, but they can also complement each other.Listening to your partner does not mean you have to agree with them.Planning time together requires understanding each other's needs.
Sound bites
"Communication is an ongoing process.""Arguments offer the potential for growth.""We can't plan everything in advance."
Chapters
00:00 NEWCHAPTER02:23 From Divorce Lawyer to Couples Therapist03:37 Understanding the Dynamics of Arguments05:53 The Five Essential Arguments Couples Need to Have08:54 The Importance of Communication in Relationships10:53 Exploring the Role of Anger in Communication17:15 Creating Safe Spaces for Difficult Conversations20:55 Curiosity and Understanding in Relationships29:59 Understanding Individual Issues in Relationships32:19 The Dynamics of Couples Therapy33:31 Parenting Styles and Their Impact44:29 Navigating Time Together and Apart52:48 The Evolution of Relationships After Kids
Be a Happier Parent
What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
