Nice guys don’t help because they’re selfless. They help because they’re scared—of rejection, of not being needed, of losing love. In this episode of Be Better, I break down how over-giving and unspoken expectations destroy connection, intimacy, and trust in your relationship. I speak directly to the men who keep doing more, hoping it’ll finally “be enough,” and show you why your wife pulls away, even when your actions are well-intentioned. If you’re tired of feeling unseen, frustrated, or co...
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Nice guys don’t help because they’re selfless. They help because they’re scared—of rejection, of not being needed, of losing love. In this episode of Be Better, I break down how over-giving and unspoken expectations destroy connection, intimacy, and trust in your relationship. I speak directly to the men who keep doing more, hoping it’ll finally “be enough,” and show you why your wife pulls away, even when your actions are well-intentioned. If you’re tired of feeling unseen, frustrated, or co...
Why Hustling Harder Was Making Me a Worse Father & Slowing Down Felt Like Weakness — That Was Wrecking My Marriage l EP. 37 l
Be Better.
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Why Hustling Harder Was Making Me a Worse Father & Slowing Down Felt Like Weakness — That Was Wrecking My Marriage l EP. 37 l
Most men think they’ll just “figure it out” when fatherhood hits. I thought the same — until my old habits nearly wrecked the one thing that mattered most: my presence. In this episode, I break down the hardest mindset shift I had to make becoming a dad. Not just learning how to change nappies… but how to change my state. ⚠️ What I thought made me productive — high pressure, less sleep, more caffeine — made me anxious, irritable, and reactive. What I really needed was: Nervous sys...
Be Better.
Nice guys don’t help because they’re selfless. They help because they’re scared—of rejection, of not being needed, of losing love. In this episode of Be Better, I break down how over-giving and unspoken expectations destroy connection, intimacy, and trust in your relationship. I speak directly to the men who keep doing more, hoping it’ll finally “be enough,” and show you why your wife pulls away, even when your actions are well-intentioned. If you’re tired of feeling unseen, frustrated, or co...
