Send us a text Most men don’t avoid conflict because they’re weak. They avoid it because they don’t know how to stay grounded when emotions rise. In this episode, I break down the critical difference between nice guy avoidance and grounded masculine leadership—and why swinging the pendulum toward “confront everything” is just as destructive. Nice guys suppress their needs, justify, over-explain, or shut down to keep the peace. And over time, that teaches their partner one dangerou...
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Send us a text Most men don’t avoid conflict because they’re weak. They avoid it because they don’t know how to stay grounded when emotions rise. In this episode, I break down the critical difference between nice guy avoidance and grounded masculine leadership—and why swinging the pendulum toward “confront everything” is just as destructive. Nice guys suppress their needs, justify, over-explain, or shut down to keep the peace. And over time, that teaches their partner one dangerou...
You Only Feel Valuable When You’re Productive — That’s the Problem l EP. 53 l
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You Only Feel Valuable When You’re Productive — That’s the Problem l EP. 53 l
If you feel guilty when you slow down — when you’re not working, not producing, not achieving — it’s not because you’re lazy. It’s because your nervous system and identity were built around performance. In this episode, I break down the truth behind why high-performing men struggle to rest, why stillness feels unsafe, and how to start rewiring your nervous system so that peace doesn’t feel like failure. I’ve coached almost 500 men through this exact pattern — men who ...
Be Better.
Send us a text Most men don’t avoid conflict because they’re weak. They avoid it because they don’t know how to stay grounded when emotions rise. In this episode, I break down the critical difference between nice guy avoidance and grounded masculine leadership—and why swinging the pendulum toward “confront everything” is just as destructive. Nice guys suppress their needs, justify, over-explain, or shut down to keep the peace. And over time, that teaches their partner one dangerou...
