Nice guys don’t help because they’re selfless. They help because they’re scared—of rejection, of not being needed, of losing love. In this episode of Be Better, I break down how over-giving and unspoken expectations destroy connection, intimacy, and trust in your relationship. I speak directly to the men who keep doing more, hoping it’ll finally “be enough,” and show you why your wife pulls away, even when your actions are well-intentioned. If you’re tired of feeling unseen, frustrated, or co...
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Nice guys don’t help because they’re selfless. They help because they’re scared—of rejection, of not being needed, of losing love. In this episode of Be Better, I break down how over-giving and unspoken expectations destroy connection, intimacy, and trust in your relationship. I speak directly to the men who keep doing more, hoping it’ll finally “be enough,” and show you why your wife pulls away, even when your actions are well-intentioned. If you’re tired of feeling unseen, frustrated, or co...
You Only Feel Valuable When You’re Productive — That’s the Problem l EP. 53 l
Be Better.
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1 week ago
You Only Feel Valuable When You’re Productive — That’s the Problem l EP. 53 l
If you feel guilty when you slow down — when you’re not working, not producing, not achieving — it’s not because you’re lazy. It’s because your nervous system and identity were built around performance. In this episode, I break down the truth behind why high-performing men struggle to rest, why stillness feels unsafe, and how to start rewiring your nervous system so that peace doesn’t feel like failure. I’ve coached almost 500 men through this exact pattern — men who ...
Be Better.
Nice guys don’t help because they’re selfless. They help because they’re scared—of rejection, of not being needed, of losing love. In this episode of Be Better, I break down how over-giving and unspoken expectations destroy connection, intimacy, and trust in your relationship. I speak directly to the men who keep doing more, hoping it’ll finally “be enough,” and show you why your wife pulls away, even when your actions are well-intentioned. If you’re tired of feeling unseen, frustrated, or co...
