In this episode, Aaron and DJ explore the challenges parents face when they feel like they have failed. DJ Stutz, an experienced parenting facilitator, shares her insights from working with women in prison and homeless shelters. She emphasizes the importance of maintaining confidence and compassion as a parent, even in difficult situations. DJ also discusses the need to listen to teenagers venting without escalating the situation. She highlights the significance of recognizing and addressing our anger as parents. Additionally, DJ suggests using interruptions and distractions to diffuse tense moments and find logical solutions.  Takeaways Maintain confidence and compassion as a parent, even in challenging situations. Interrupt arguments and listen to teenagers venting without escalating the situation. Recognize and address our anger as parents. Be kind and engage in activities with our children Check out DJ here https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/ Check out our Ko-Fi page, The first members-only episode launches Monday, January 5th https://ko-fi.com/beyondriskandback For free support join our private Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/parentingteensthatstruggle. For parenting resources or to book a coaching session go to parentingeensthatstruggle.com. Contact Aaron directly at aaron@firemountainprograms.com. To see all of our pages go to linktr.ee/beyondriskandback. Aaron has reopened his coaching practice, if you or a friend need family coaching reach out to him directly. Thanks to Magic Mind for sponsoring this video https://magicmind.com/