“Grownups can be dream killers.” A stop-you-in-your-tracks truth that opens a deeper conversation about courage, safety, and choosing possibility again. In the final episode of Beyond the Quo for 2025, Stacey Luces sits down with Yulimar Trumbo, an investor in the future of entrepreneurs and a world-class sales facilitator who has worked across 40+ countries with Fortune 500 companies, NGOs, and government sectors. Together, they close the year with honesty, humor, and depth, exploring what 2025 revealed and what 2026 can become. They unpack why intentions create alignment while resolutions often create pressure, why authentic connection matters more than proximity, and how protecting your time is really about protecting your life. Through personal stories about family, entrepreneurship, partnership, and change, they discuss leading yourself first, trusting what your body knows, and building “a new same page” in relationships and communities. 🎧 In this episode: • 02:39 Intentions vs. resolutions • 05:06 Decisions that shaped the last decade • 10:47 Protecting your time and saying no • 26:24 Dreams, courage, and refusing to shrink • 29:07 Youth, innovation, and social entrepreneurship • 39:36 Relationships, loneliness, and real connection 💡 Key Takeaways: • Intentions create alignment. Resolutions create pressure. Intentions invite your spirit to rise toward what’s possible. Resolutions demand compliance. This episode reframes the New Year as alignment, not self-correction. • “No” is autonomy in motion. Practice it early and often. Self-betrayal starts small. If you override yourself in minor moments, you’ll override yourself when the stakes are higher. Boundaries are built in the everyday. • Courage must be protected or it will be negotiated away. “Grownups can be dream killers” isn’t an accusation. It’s a warning. When safety becomes the goal, imagination shrinks. Courage is the cost of a future that’s truly yours. • Transformation begins with a new internal language. Words like sacrifice, balance, guilt, and control quietly drain power. Replacing them with center, integration, responsibility, equanimity, and surrender changes how you lead, love, and choose. You’ve already done the quo—now it’s time to go beyond. 🔥 Feeling inspired? Don’t keep it to yourself! • Subscribe, share and follow Beyond the Quo and I’d deeply appreciate your five-star rating so more people can listen and learn! ✨ Connect with Stacey: staceyluces.com IG @ Stacey.Luces LinkedIn @StaceyLuces ✨ Connect with Yuli: LinkedIn @yulimar-trumbo
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“Grownups can be dream killers.” A stop-you-in-your-tracks truth that opens a deeper conversation about courage, safety, and choosing possibility again. In the final episode of Beyond the Quo for 2025, Stacey Luces sits down with Yulimar Trumbo, an investor in the future of entrepreneurs and a world-class sales facilitator who has worked across 40+ countries with Fortune 500 companies, NGOs, and government sectors. Together, they close the year with honesty, humor, and depth, exploring what 2025 revealed and what 2026 can become. They unpack why intentions create alignment while resolutions often create pressure, why authentic connection matters more than proximity, and how protecting your time is really about protecting your life. Through personal stories about family, entrepreneurship, partnership, and change, they discuss leading yourself first, trusting what your body knows, and building “a new same page” in relationships and communities. 🎧 In this episode: • 02:39 Intentions vs. resolutions • 05:06 Decisions that shaped the last decade • 10:47 Protecting your time and saying no • 26:24 Dreams, courage, and refusing to shrink • 29:07 Youth, innovation, and social entrepreneurship • 39:36 Relationships, loneliness, and real connection 💡 Key Takeaways: • Intentions create alignment. Resolutions create pressure. Intentions invite your spirit to rise toward what’s possible. Resolutions demand compliance. This episode reframes the New Year as alignment, not self-correction. • “No” is autonomy in motion. Practice it early and often. Self-betrayal starts small. If you override yourself in minor moments, you’ll override yourself when the stakes are higher. Boundaries are built in the everyday. • Courage must be protected or it will be negotiated away. “Grownups can be dream killers” isn’t an accusation. It’s a warning. When safety becomes the goal, imagination shrinks. Courage is the cost of a future that’s truly yours. • Transformation begins with a new internal language. Words like sacrifice, balance, guilt, and control quietly drain power. Replacing them with center, integration, responsibility, equanimity, and surrender changes how you lead, love, and choose. You’ve already done the quo—now it’s time to go beyond. 🔥 Feeling inspired? Don’t keep it to yourself! • Subscribe, share and follow Beyond the Quo and I’d deeply appreciate your five-star rating so more people can listen and learn! ✨ Connect with Stacey: staceyluces.com IG @ Stacey.Luces LinkedIn @StaceyLuces ✨ Connect with Yuli: LinkedIn @yulimar-trumbo
Ep. 44 - Beyond Comparison: Running Your Race with Confidence with Stacey Luces
Beyond The Quo
49 minutes
3 months ago
Ep. 44 - Beyond Comparison: Running Your Race with Confidence with Stacey Luces
“Brad Pitt may still be hot in his fifties, but even he probably faces the same trap we all do - comparison.”Welcome to 'Beyond the Quo' with Stacey Luces, your go-to podcast for navigating midlife reinvention. In this episode she dives into the comparison trap that steals our joy and erodes our confidence, especially in midlife and leadership. Using personal anecdotes and professional insights, Stacey discusses the impact of social comparison on self-esteem and leadership, and provides actionable strategies to shift from comparison to clarity, gratitude, and personal success. Discover how to run your own race, redefine success on your terms, and lead with courage.🎧 In this episode:• 01:14 The Comparison Trap: A Thief of Joy• 02:53 Strategies to Overcome Comparison• 06:31 The Impact of Comparison on Confidence• 13:55 Midlife Challenges and Comparison• 25:02 The Real Cost of Comparison• 31:49 The Power of Self-Trust• 35:11 Strategies to Overcome Comparison💡 Key Takeaways:• Comparison steals joy and momentum — it drains confidence, erodes leadership presence, and blinds you to your own progress.• You are on time for your own life — the only competition is the version of you from yesterday, not someone else’s curated highlight reel.• Success has to be redefined personally — without clarity on your values, you’ll keep chasing someone else’s “red stick” instead of your own true measure of success.• Small shifts create big freedom — noticing triggers, reframing narratives, and practicing gratitude for progress keep you in your lane and restore confidence.You’ve already done the quo—now it’s time to go beyond.🔥 Feeling inspired? Don’t keep it to yourself!• Subscribe, share and follow Beyond the Quo and I’d deeply appreciate your five-star rating so more people can listen and learn!✨ Connect with Stacey: staceyluces.com IG @Stacey.Luces LinkedIn @StaceyLuces
Beyond The Quo
“Grownups can be dream killers.” A stop-you-in-your-tracks truth that opens a deeper conversation about courage, safety, and choosing possibility again. In the final episode of Beyond the Quo for 2025, Stacey Luces sits down with Yulimar Trumbo, an investor in the future of entrepreneurs and a world-class sales facilitator who has worked across 40+ countries with Fortune 500 companies, NGOs, and government sectors. Together, they close the year with honesty, humor, and depth, exploring what 2025 revealed and what 2026 can become. They unpack why intentions create alignment while resolutions often create pressure, why authentic connection matters more than proximity, and how protecting your time is really about protecting your life. Through personal stories about family, entrepreneurship, partnership, and change, they discuss leading yourself first, trusting what your body knows, and building “a new same page” in relationships and communities. 🎧 In this episode: • 02:39 Intentions vs. resolutions • 05:06 Decisions that shaped the last decade • 10:47 Protecting your time and saying no • 26:24 Dreams, courage, and refusing to shrink • 29:07 Youth, innovation, and social entrepreneurship • 39:36 Relationships, loneliness, and real connection 💡 Key Takeaways: • Intentions create alignment. Resolutions create pressure. Intentions invite your spirit to rise toward what’s possible. Resolutions demand compliance. This episode reframes the New Year as alignment, not self-correction. • “No” is autonomy in motion. Practice it early and often. Self-betrayal starts small. If you override yourself in minor moments, you’ll override yourself when the stakes are higher. Boundaries are built in the everyday. • Courage must be protected or it will be negotiated away. “Grownups can be dream killers” isn’t an accusation. It’s a warning. When safety becomes the goal, imagination shrinks. Courage is the cost of a future that’s truly yours. • Transformation begins with a new internal language. Words like sacrifice, balance, guilt, and control quietly drain power. Replacing them with center, integration, responsibility, equanimity, and surrender changes how you lead, love, and choose. You’ve already done the quo—now it’s time to go beyond. 🔥 Feeling inspired? Don’t keep it to yourself! • Subscribe, share and follow Beyond the Quo and I’d deeply appreciate your five-star rating so more people can listen and learn! ✨ Connect with Stacey: staceyluces.com IG @ Stacey.Luces LinkedIn @StaceyLuces ✨ Connect with Yuli: LinkedIn @yulimar-trumbo
