Bill and Samantha unpack the stigma around anger and the broader emotional experience for people with low vision or blindness. Samantha shares her unconventional entry into vision-loss counseling through the Tampa Lighthouse for the Blind, emphasizes that clients with low vision are “just people,” and highlights grief as a common—but not universal—theme. Together they challenge prejudices (sighted vs. blind therapists), explore the “anger umbrella” of nuanced emotions, and offer concrete techniques for naming, expressing, and managing feelings—especially when visual cues are absent. The conversation closes with practical strategies: emotional granularity (using an “emotion wheel”), clear verbal check‑ins (“What’s happening in the room?”), and personalized coping routines (naming the feeling, walking away, sensory resets). Key Themes: Grief and loss in vision change Bias toward/against blind or sighted therapists Anger as an umbrella emotion vs. specific labels Gender and family conditioning around emotion Teaching children emotional language early Safety and expressing anger without visual feedback Coping strategies: name it, take space, regulate Emotional granularity & the Emotion Wheel Therapy as education: “You don’t know what you don’t know” Actionable Tips: Name precisely: Go beyond “angry” to “hurt,” “threatened,” “frustrated,” etc. State & step back: “I’m angry; I need 30 minutes. I’ll come back.” Ask for context: If you can’t see reactions, verbalize: “What’s happening in the room? How are you feeling?” Build a coping menu: Music, walk, shower, time with guide dog—experiment and codify what works. Use an Emotion Wheel: Improves emotional regulation and communication. Guest Contact: Website: https://tideschangingtherapy.com Email: samantha@tideschangingtherapy.com Instagram: @tideschangingtherapy Aftersight Feedback / Inquiries: feedback@aftersight.org Disclaimer: This episode is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. 2. Chapter Markers (mm:ss – one line each) 00:00 – Intro & Welcome 01:00 – Samantha’s Path: Tampa Lighthouse & Finding a Calling 02:14 – Serving Clients in Florida and Colorado 04:16 – “Same People, Different Experiences”: Grief & Vision Loss 06:43 – Bias Toward Sighted vs. Blind Therapists 08:35 – Challenging Prejudice and Affirming Capability 10:54 – Setting Up Today’s Focus: Anger 12:34 – Defining Anger & The Umbrella of Emotions 14:44 – Gender, Family Messages, and Suppressed Feelings 16:59 – Teaching Emotional Language to Children 19:27 – Expressing Anger Safely with Limited Visual Cues 21:52 – Coping Strategies: Naming, Walking Away, Reset 24:14 – Anger ≠ Aggression: Normalizing the Feeling 26:13 – Navigating Others’ Reactions Without Sight 28:43 – Communication: “What’s Going On in the Room?” 29:52 – Therapy, Learning, and Transforming Patterns 32:01 – Emotional Granularity & The Emotion Wheel 34:25 – From Core Emotions to Nuanced Expression 36:49 – Reframing Emotions: We Feel Before We Think 39:16 – Practical Tips & Verbal Validation 41:43 – Guest Contact Info, Wrap‑Up & Closing