You know that gnawing feeling when you're stuck between two major life decisions? Maybe it's choosing between careers, relationships, or even which business to invest your energy in. It seems logical to figure out what you want first, before deciding. But here's what's strange - the harder you ask yourself "What's my right path?" the more paralyzed you become. You second-guess everything. You analyze until your brain hurts, yet somehow never land on that "full-body yes" you're searching for. What if the question itself is the problem? In this episode, we explore how asking "What do I want?" from a place of shame and self-doubt isn't seeking genuine guidance - we're unconsciously re-traumatizing ourselves. We break down the surprising psychology behind why capable people get stuck in analysis paralysis, and reveal the three internal consequences (shame, anxiety, fear of failure) that create three devastating behavioral patterns most of us don't even realize we're trapped in. But more importantly, we share a 3-step healing framework and three daily practices that can help you move from chronic self-doubt to authentic self-trust - without needing to figure out the "perfect" answer first.   If you've ever felt like you're fighting an invisible force when making important life decisions, this episode might change how you approach uncertainty.