Have you ever looked around at your life and thought, “I did everything I was supposed to do. I hustled. I achieved. I built the life I wanted… so why do I feel so disconnected from myself?” If that hit a little too close, this episode is the one your soul’s been waiting for. Because today, we’re unpacking the silent identity crisis that so many high-achieving women face when hustle culture, adulthood, partnership, womanhood, and purpose all collide at the same time. And if you’ve been feeling stretched thin, burnt out, or unsure of who you are outside of the roles you fill-girl, you are not alone. Today we into the identity shifts that happen when your life evolves faster than your sense of self can keep up. Using insights sparked by Ayesha Curry’s recent conversation about losing herself in marriage and motherhood. We break down: Why high achievers struggle silently with identity loss How hustle culture and expectation force women into roles they never truly chose Why so many women feel guilty for wanting individuality outside of marriage or motherhood The emotional conflict between gratitude, ambition, and burnout The truth about evolving in your late 20s + early 30s How to rebuild yourself after transitions like marriage, motherhood, or career shifts Practical self-care tools to reconnect with the woman you’re becoming Why your identity isn’t disappearing—it’s EVOLVING This episode is the reminder every high-achieving woman needs:Evolution isn’t betrayal. It’s becoming. Low-key burnt out Stuck between who you were and who you’re becoming Guilty for wanting more than the roles you play Disconnected from your own dreams and identity Overwhelmed by being “the strong one,” “the dependable one,” “the glue” Then this conversation will feel like a deep exhale. Identity is not fixed—it's fluid. Women are conditioned to add roles, not identities. High achievers often shrink to avoid disappointing others. Gratitude and desire can coexist. Hustle culture adds pressure—but self-care is the antidote. You’re allowed to outgrow older versions of yourself. Rebuilding yourself requires quiet, intention, and honesty. Try these if you’re navigating an identity shift: Journal Prompts: “What part of me has been asking for attention?” “What would I choose if guilt wasn’t in the room?” “What version of me am I ready to return to?” This episode is sponsored by Huel — the go-to fuel source for the ambitious girlies who want to eat well, stay energized, and NOT burn out. Whether you’re sprinting between meetings, cramming a workout in, or trying not to lose your sanity in the morning rush: ✨ Huel’s Black Edition Ready-to-Drink gives you 35g of protein 27 essential vitamins + minerals 6g of fiber No added sugar And keeps you full, focused, and leveled-up And sis… the Daily Greens RTD in Blueberry?? A MUST. Try Huel with 15% off using code: BOSSBABE at huel.com/bossbabe. Fuel your best performance with Huel today. If this episode hit home, screenshot it, share it with a fellow boss babe, and tag @bossbaberest so we can hype you up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices