After a breakup, it’s easy to feel like you’ve lost yourself. For women, that often looks like shame for having given everything to the relationship. For men, it can mean feeling stripped of the pride and roles that defined them as a partner, husband, or father. In this episode of Breakup Pep Talks, Sarah helps you uncover who you are without external titles or roles. You’ll learn how to separate external identity markers from the gifts that come naturally from within you — and why those unique strengths are the foundation of rebuilding your confidence. Sarah walks you through practical tools like creating a strengths inventory, logging daily wins, and taking a “curiosity audit” to reconnect with your natural gifts and interests. Think of it as strength training for your identity: every rep helps you become stronger, more grounded, and more you.