aIn this Dharma discussion, Kadam Mark and I explore the importance and nuances of engaging in skillful discussions to deepen one's understanding of Buddhist teachings. Key points include: Approach discussions with an open mind, genuine interest, and a wish to learn from others. Create a safe, non-judgmental environment where all participants feel cherished and heard. Focus on clarifying meanings and moving the mind to a more positive state rather than seeking definitive conclusions. Recognize that everyone has wisdom to contribute, and incorrect views can still lead to valuable insights. Be patient and considerate when discussing with others, adjusting to their level of understanding and cultural background. Engage in discussions regularly, even informally, to keep the Dharma alive and prevent doubts from festering. We also touch on the challenges and benefits of online discussions, the role of discussion in memorization and examination preparation, and the importance of finding like-minded Dharma friends to discuss with consistently. Ultimately, skillful discussion is a way to transform one's life and deepen spiritual realizations, making the Dharma a living experience rather than mere intellectual understanding.