Most people have no idea what’s really killing their sex drive — and it has nothing to do with their partner. In this raw, eye-opening conversation, intimacy and pleasure coach Alissa Hansen breaks down why the spark fades in long-term relationships, the truth about libido, and how unresolved trauma from childhood might secretly shape what turns you on. From sexless relationships and performance anxiety to erotic templates and core desires, this episode dives deep into what it really takes to feel alive in the bedroom again. If you’ve ever asked yourself “Why don’t I want sex anymore?” or “Can the spark come back?” — this episode will change the way you think about intimacy forever.SHOP NEW CATAMANIA MERCH:https://mbhtv.com/collections/catamaniaSubscribe here: https://youtube.com/@catamaniashow?feature=sharedCATAMANIA SocialsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/catamania/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@catamaniashow?utm_source=hoobe&utm_medium=socialCRISTINA SocialsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cristinacataman/GUEST SocialsALISSA: https://www.instagram.com/alissa.hansen/Follow MBHTV:https://www.instagram.com/mbhtv/AUDIO VersionsApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/catamania/id1609694116?utm_source=hoobe&utm_medium=socialSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/47s5K3sixX7PzqQUlk8SbZ?si=53017589d00f40a5&utm_source=hoobe&utm_medium=social&nd=1&dlsi=ac5ab91cd41a416a