In this episode, Cenia tells the story of leaving Haverstraw—a place that was deeply community oriented—because she felt stuck and needed to grow. She shares what happened when she moved to the Dominican Republic looking for community, only to realize it takes decades to build, and reflects on both extremes she's experienced: the beautiful suffocation of everyone knowing your business in tight-knit communities, and the deep isolation of achieving the American dream alone. Through her story, she reveals what true community is NOT—it's not your pickleball club or shared interest group. Real community means your lives are intertwined across multiple contexts. Now she's trying to be intentional about creating this with the wisdom she's learned, asking: can you build that depth when everyone has choices and nothing forces anyone to stay?