Welcome to Coaching Conversations, the show where we dive into the inspiring stories of innovators, coaches, and change-makers who are transforming lives and pushing the boundaries of what's possible. In this episode, I’m speaking to Danielle Robins and she has a powerful and deeply personal story to share. Danielle grew up in a troubled household, with an emotionally unavailable, abusive alcoholic father. At 12, she chose to live with him after her parents’ messy divorce, drawn by his attempts to be the “cool dad.” By 16, she was kicked out, beginning a difficult journey to rebuild her bond with her mother. At 20, Danielle took charge of her life, embarking on a global journey of healing through yoga, meditation, and holistic practices. Now a qualified coach, she empowers others to heal relationship wounds, redefine their stories, and reclaim their lives.Whether you repeatedly find yourself in relationships that leave you feeling unworthy, unloved and not good enough OR perhaps you push people away to avoid being abandoned, then pull them back in because you crave their attention. Maybe you’ve started to notice the same problems coming up again and again with different people. I’ll be delving into these questions and so much more in today’s podcast.Get ready for a raw, inspiring conversation about resilience, healing, and transformation. ⏰Time Codes⏰00:00 - Introduction 2:41 - Healing past trauma and redefining your future4:45 - Finding your niche as a coach5:05 - Being a fatherless daughter6:45 - Attachment styles and their definitions 9:00 - My breakthrough moment, avoidance and running away11:00 - The correlation between a nomadic life and a avoidance 12:30 - The importance of communication styles in relationships13:15 - Ego states - the three areas14:50 - Does how you show up in a relationship change with different relationships15:45 - How do you define what a healthy relationship is 18:15 - What is matrix reimprinting and EFT18:50 - What is embodiment coaching 19:55 - The messages our bodies sends to our mind23:50 - What is survival mode? 25:00 - Tips to regulate your nervous system26:15 - Tapping routine EFT to centre yourself. Acupuncture without the needles 28:40 - How important is your own personal growth important in a relationship 30:30 - The key to successful relationships32:00 - Are dating apps a good thing or a bad thing for relationships 34:00 - Is talking to people on apps ok if you're lonely 35:45 - Maintaining self love within a relationship 37:45 - Do people downplay what's happened in their life 39:00 - Does your status dictate who you are40:30 - The importance of having a positive self story 41:27 - Realising you want a relationship before it's too late 43:50 - Do people put enough value on relationships until it's too late 45:00 - What to do before you start feeling lonely 46:30 - How do you define your boundaries within a relationship 49:00 - Why we avoid vulnerability 52:45 - How to start healing from a relationship56:10 - Relationship red flags - what to look out for 57:50 - How to maintain a fulfilling and lasting relationship 01:06:00 - Why we should value real life relationshipsLet's Connect: ▶️Subscribe to my channel: / @elinmai 💻Book your own Coaching Conversation with me: https://bit.ly/elinmai-coaching-convoSocial & Website: 🌐Website: https://elinmai.com/ 🔗LinkedIn: / elin-mai More about Danielle:🌐Website: https://beyouunlimited.global/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drobins28/?hl=en🔗LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-robins-relationship-coach/💥Whether you're single, in a relationship, or anywhere in between relationship coach Danielle Robins shares groundbreaking insights to transform your love life. Learn how to connect with your authentic self, navigate relationship challenges, and create healthier, more fulfilling partnerships.#relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #relationshipadvice #relationship