University of Michigan-trained pianist, composer, and vocalist Alexia Benson joins Cody Kai Cast for a raw, wide-ranging conversation about the realities of being a woman in music, the line between confidence and narcissism, and the burnout that comes from chasing perfection.
From debating Louie C.K.’s take on sexism and the “lizard-brain” roots of bias to riffing on Nick Cage, Bowie, Björk, and the art of improvisation, this episode dives deep into creativity, ego, and the pursuit of authenticity.
🎧 Highlights
🎹 Life at music school & classical-to-improv transition
💡 Narcissism vs self-belief in the arts
👩🎤 Being a woman composer in a male-dominated scene
🎬 Scoring films (including one for Nicolas Cage’s brother)
⚡ Burnout, social media & why “balance” beats perfection
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