Season 7 keeps rolling with a lighter, heart-warming catch-up. Shilz and Djenys pause the heavy to reconnect—life, love, and the summer that just was. Djenys steps into her 40s with gratitude after a dinner filled with harmony and laughter; she shares candidly about falling in and out of love, and why she’s keeping something new quiet for now. Shilz chooses privacy around dating, but opens up about a restorative six-week break—Houston to Nigeria to Ibiza (and Beyoncé)—and the decision to calendar real rest every year. Together they agree: when life gives you a good season, lean in.
The conversation holds tenderness and perspective. Djenys looks back at a difficult patch and is surprised by how much brighter she feels now—smiling, laughing, thankful. The pair then reflect on recent events: reactions to political violence in the U.S.; protests in Britain, including anti-immigration rhetoric and clashes; why “free speech” debates so often tilt against marginalised communities; and small, everyday ways to stand in solidarity. They also note Black History Month and point ahead to a future episode on interracial relationships—communication, boundaries, and loving across difference.
It all lands where CML lives: warm, candid, and human—ready to hold both laughter and reflection.
In this episode
Turning 40, friendship dinners, and choosing joy
Travel, rest, and building a sustainable pace
Dating with honesty and privacy
Gratitude after a hard season
Reflections on current events in the U.K. and U.S.
Looking ahead: interracial relationships
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Editors note: mentions of political violence and racism. Views are personal. This conversation is not legal or medical advice.