The Deeper Problem of Feeling Stuck in Your Career
Hey there, welcome to today's blog where we're going to dig into something that often gets swept under the rug: that feeling of being stuck and the internal tug-of-war that can really slow us down.
This isn't just theory; this is my journey, and my hope is that by sharing it, you might find some nuggets of wisdom.
So, let's start from the beginning.
I hit a point where I felt like I was in the dark, and the main reason for that was feeling disconnected from myself.
If you're someone with big ambitions, like me, or if you're in a leadership role, you've probably been there. Ambition drove me to chase external success, but in that pursuit, I lost touch with my inner wants, values, and emotions.
The result? A nagging sense of emptiness despite the outward achievements.
This internal struggle created a constant anxiety, a never-ending worry that I might be barking up the wrong tree.
I've seen this in others, too, where it leads to stress, self-doubt, and self-sabotage.
What no one really talks about is the energy drain caused by this internal conflict.
It's that clash between what society deems as success and our authentic selves that triggers stress, anxiety, and a feeling of being trapped in a life that doesn't really fit.
For me, everything started to change when I decided to take responsibility.
Blaming everything outside of me wasn't getting me anywhere.
I had to have a real heart-to-heart with myself.
Getting in your own way isn't just about battling limiting beliefs; it's also about missing out on opportunities because you're looking through a narrow success lens.
It's about failing to see all the chances around you because they don't match your preconceived notion of success.
Embracing authenticity takes guts and confidence.
It means making choices that resonate with your values, desires, and purpose.
Even when everyone and their aunt insists that an opportunity is too good to pass up, if it doesn't feel right for you, be brave enough to say no.
It might be a bit uncomfortable, but having the confidence to trust in your own truth is the name of the game.
My journey is still a work in progress, and it's a conscious one.
When I get triggered, I see it as a chance for self-reflection. It's like playing detective, trying to uncover deeper issues.
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Thanks for taking the time to read today, and always remember, it's a journey, not a destination.
With a big, warm heart, Caroline 💖
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