In this conversation, Tom Graber shares his life journey from his early years in New Hampshire to a distinguished career in the Border Patrol and INS, followed by a transition into ministry and the establishment of retreat centers. He discusses the importance of divine intervention in his life, the concept of 'God winks', and the role of prayer in navigating life's challenges. Tom also reflects on the complexities of balancing faith with duty, particularly in the context of immigration and community service.