Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  sam@healingcouples.org   Episode show notes: Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/  Is quitting porn addiction supposed to feel this hard? If you're exhausted from white-knuckling urges, managing triggers, and constantly trying not to slip… this episode will change everything. The truth is, the path how to porn doesn’t have to be exhausting — it’s only exhausting when you don’t know what to do. Most men aren’t lacking effort or willpower… they’re just missing the map. In this episode, I break down the three hidden root causes that keep men stuck in the porn cycle, even when they’ve tried filters, accountability, cold showers, and “just being more disciplined.” More importantly, he shows you how to solve each one — through real client stories, emotional breakthroughs, and clear next steps you can implement right now. Inside this episode: The real reason willpower alone doesn’t work Why most men are trying to manage porn urges instead of resolving them How emotional awareness (not just self-control) changes everything The #1 lie shame tells you — and how to break out of the shame loop for good Why disconnection, not lust, is often the real trigger behind porn use How to build emotional connection and intimacy (even if you're scared to open up) If you’ve ever thought: “I’m doing everything I can… why am I still stuck?” — this episode will give you answers. You’ll learn how to identify the real emotional root behind porn use, stop spinning your wheels, and take the first clear step toward freedom.