You've been warned about catfishing. But have you heard of chatfishing?
Picture this: You've been messaging someone for weeks. They're witty. Vulnerable. Thoughtful. Every text feels like a breath of fresh air.
Then you meet them in person.
And suddenly… crickets.
Where the hell is the person you've been talking to?
Here's the truth bomb: You've been chatting with ChatGPT, not them.
Every. Single. Message.
This is chatfishing—the new dating deception where someone uses AI to do all their talking for them. And babe, your time is too damn valuable for this shit.
Here's how you protect yourself:
💖Stop chatting for weeks before meeting. I'm talking 3-5 days MAX. Then get on that first date.
💖Because the longer you wait? The more time you're investing in someone who might not even be showing up as themselves.
And when you finally meet and realize you've been chatfished? If it's been weeks, you're gonna feel exhausted. Jaded. Ready to throw in the towel.
But if you meet sooner? You're like: "Next!"
Listen to the full episode to learn:
The exact signs someone might be using AI
Why staying open (without being naive) is everything
How to become the hero of your own dating story instead of the victim
Don't let chatfishing be another excuse to stop putting yourself out there.
Your person is waiting. And they're showing up as themselves.
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