
I need you to hear this: Going on more dates is NOT the answer.
I know everyone's telling you 2026 is your year and to put yourself out there more. But that advice? It's setting you up for failure. In this episode, I'm giving you the tough love wake-up call you need.
More apps, more swiping, more dates with random dudes who ghost you — that's a fast track to burnout, not to your forever person.
I'm sharing why the real work happens when you STOP, reflect, and change your approach from the inside out. I had to do this before I found my husband.
And if you're exhausted with the dating hamster wheel and ready to attract a high-quality, emotionally available man who actually wants to commit?
This episode will shift everything for you.
What I Want You to Know
✨ More dates ≠ more love. If you keep doing what isn't working, you'll just get exhausted and give up. I don't want that for you.
✨The app isn't the problem — YOU are. I say that with love. Your lens is cracked, and you can't see clearly. You might be subconsciously attracted to the wrong people without even realizing it.
✨I need you to ask yourself the uncomfortable questions. Are YOU emotionally available? Are you protecting your heart by choosing unavailable men? Are you going for the same type over and over?
✨Call bullshit on yourself. It's easier to say all men are assholes. But taking responsibility for your part? That's the most empowering thing you can do.
✨50% of my clients found love ONLINE. So if you've written off dating apps, that limiting belief is blocking your person from reaching you. I'm telling you — you're wrong about this one.
✨I had to change from within to attract my husband. I was stuck in a cycle of losers and guys who wouldn't commit. When I stopped and got crystal clear on ME, everything shifted. The same is available for you.
If you're done with the dating hamster wheel and ready for expert guidance to find your forever person. — I got you.
I offer 1:1 private coaching and group coaching programs where I teach you my proven C.R.A.Z.Y. Love Method. Book a call and let's see if coaching is right for you. 👉https://jackieloor.com/book-a-crazy-love-deep-dive-call
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