In this episode, Dr. Brent sits down with Pastor Joshua Jordan — someone he has personally mentored for several years and who now serves on staff at Arise Church. What started as a simple Q&A on social media turned into a flood of mentorship-related questions, so today we tackle them head-on. This is a practical, honest conversation about mentoring, calling, spiritual growth, and what it takes to develop into the leader God has created you to be.   What We Cover in This Episode How to Choose the Right Mentor What to look for, what to avoid, and how to recognize someone who can genuinely help form your character and calling. Mentor vs. Spiritual Father We tackle the difference between receiving wisdom from a mentor and receiving identity, covering, and formation from a spiritual father/mother — and why both can matter. How to Approach a Mentor Practical steps for starting the conversation, honoring the relationship, and positioning yourself to grow. Discerning God’s Voice vs. Personal Ambition How to tell when a desire is from God, when it’s flesh, and how mentors help you untangle the difference. Growing Into a Calling that Feels “Too Big” What to do when God speaks identity over you that doesn’t match how you currently see yourself — and how mentors guide you into confidence, maturity, and Christlike character. Developing in the Five-Fold When You Lack a Mentor or Covering Can you grow without a person directly discipling you? Yes. Is there a healthier way? Absolutely. We talk through both. Can a Mentor Help You Grow in Spiritual Gifts (Like Prophecy)? How to develop gifts responsibly, biblically, and in community — and what healthy vs. unhealthy guidance looks like.   Why This Conversation Matters We’re living in a generation hungry for guidance, identity, clarity, and discipleship.Mentorship isn’t a luxury — it’s a biblical model of spiritual formation. This conversation gives you tools to: Find a mentor Become a mentor Discern God’s calling Grow in your spiritual gifts Develop into the leader God intended Whether you’re just beginning your journey or you’re already guiding others, this episode will help you grow with wisdom, humility, and confidence.   Connect with Pastor Joshua Jordan @joshuajjordan   Connect with Dr. Brent 💬 All Social Media: @DrBrentSimpson🌐 BrentSimpson.com🏡 MyAriseChurch.com🎙️ Listen to the Podcast Anywhere:https://creatingthefuture.podbean.com/