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DANG! The Todd Bridges Podcast
Todd Bridges and Bettijo Bridges
48 episodes
3 days ago
How do you support someone struggling with addiction without enabling them? In this episode of DANG!, Todd Bridges and Bettijo sit down with addiction expert Dr. Brian Samford to tackle this tough question and more, sharing practical, hope-filled advice on how to walk alongside someone you love with equal parts accountability and compassion—and why “tough love” is often just another way of saying true love.SUMMARYAddiction doesn’t just hijack one person’s life—it drags the whole family into the chaos. In this raw, honest episode, Todd and Bettijo sit down with addiction expert Dr. Brian Samford, Chief Clinical Officer of The Arbor treatment center in Texas,  to talk about what actually creates lasting change, why you can’t force someone into recovery, and how to love an addict without losing yourself. Brian shares a powerful story from his clinical work about a longtime client who only revealed deep childhood trauma years into treatment—when she was finally ready—driving home a hard truth: recovery runs on the addict’s timeline, not ours.Together they dig into the messy family side of addiction: the guilt, the rescuing, the “If I don’t fix this, who will?” spiral. Brian explains why constantly stepping in—paying the fines, cleaning up the messes, smoothing everything over—might feel loving, but actually “disables” the person you’re trying to help. The key? Lead with genuine love, then add real accountability and clear boundaries. You can support someone’s sobriety, but you can’t drag them through a 12-Step program—or any kind of recovery—until they’re willing.HIGHLIGHTSWhat it’s like being Chief Clinical Officer of The Arbor treatment center (1:09)Dr. Samford shares his favorite strategy for getting reluctant patients to participate: bringing the group meeting to the client's bed! (3:03)How Brian’s recovery journey began at age 24 with a counselor who truly cared, inspiring him to help others. (4:45)Parental Sabotage: How well-meaning parents now act as the greatest barrier by constantly rescuing and enabling adult children. (10:07)Maybe the hardest part: letting go of your timeline for their recovery. (37:19)Brian’s formula for families: Accountability + Compassion = Real Love. (43:08)That thin line between loving someone and enabling—and how “helping” too much can actually disable growth. (44:14)ToddFlix: Tracker and using every tool you’ve got to stay sober. (44:42)Shows like Breaking Bad and Good Girls show “normal” people pulled into the underworld. (49:19)LISTEN TO LEARNWhy length of treatment matters so much.How to walk the tightrope between accountability and compassion in a family affected by addiction.How Todd Bridges uses lessons from the TV show Tracker—and radical surrender—to help sustain 32 years of sobriety.If you’re exhausted from trying to control your family’s chaos, here’s the secret: true love means setting boundaries and holding people accountable—and if that sounds too hard, just remember what happens when you pray for patience. Hit play!Follow on Instagram:  Todd @toddbridges & Bettijo @pagingsupermom--------------------© 2025 Loop 101 MediaDANG! is produced by Loop 101 Media, Bettijo Bridges, Todd Bridges & Attalie AnneFor more information contact info@loop101media.com
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How do you support someone struggling with addiction without enabling them? In this episode of DANG!, Todd Bridges and Bettijo sit down with addiction expert Dr. Brian Samford to tackle this tough question and more, sharing practical, hope-filled advice on how to walk alongside someone you love with equal parts accountability and compassion—and why “tough love” is often just another way of saying true love.SUMMARYAddiction doesn’t just hijack one person’s life—it drags the whole family into the chaos. In this raw, honest episode, Todd and Bettijo sit down with addiction expert Dr. Brian Samford, Chief Clinical Officer of The Arbor treatment center in Texas,  to talk about what actually creates lasting change, why you can’t force someone into recovery, and how to love an addict without losing yourself. Brian shares a powerful story from his clinical work about a longtime client who only revealed deep childhood trauma years into treatment—when she was finally ready—driving home a hard truth: recovery runs on the addict’s timeline, not ours.Together they dig into the messy family side of addiction: the guilt, the rescuing, the “If I don’t fix this, who will?” spiral. Brian explains why constantly stepping in—paying the fines, cleaning up the messes, smoothing everything over—might feel loving, but actually “disables” the person you’re trying to help. The key? Lead with genuine love, then add real accountability and clear boundaries. You can support someone’s sobriety, but you can’t drag them through a 12-Step program—or any kind of recovery—until they’re willing.HIGHLIGHTSWhat it’s like being Chief Clinical Officer of The Arbor treatment center (1:09)Dr. Samford shares his favorite strategy for getting reluctant patients to participate: bringing the group meeting to the client's bed! (3:03)How Brian’s recovery journey began at age 24 with a counselor who truly cared, inspiring him to help others. (4:45)Parental Sabotage: How well-meaning parents now act as the greatest barrier by constantly rescuing and enabling adult children. (10:07)Maybe the hardest part: letting go of your timeline for their recovery. (37:19)Brian’s formula for families: Accountability + Compassion = Real Love. (43:08)That thin line between loving someone and enabling—and how “helping” too much can actually disable growth. (44:14)ToddFlix: Tracker and using every tool you’ve got to stay sober. (44:42)Shows like Breaking Bad and Good Girls show “normal” people pulled into the underworld. (49:19)LISTEN TO LEARNWhy length of treatment matters so much.How to walk the tightrope between accountability and compassion in a family affected by addiction.How Todd Bridges uses lessons from the TV show Tracker—and radical surrender—to help sustain 32 years of sobriety.If you’re exhausted from trying to control your family’s chaos, here’s the secret: true love means setting boundaries and holding people accountable—and if that sounds too hard, just remember what happens when you pray for patience. Hit play!Follow on Instagram:  Todd @toddbridges & Bettijo @pagingsupermom--------------------© 2025 Loop 101 MediaDANG! is produced by Loop 101 Media, Bettijo Bridges, Todd Bridges & Attalie AnneFor more information contact info@loop101media.com
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'Ducky' from the Bronx: Louis Lombardi’s Unconventional Path to Hollywood - Ep. 44
DANG! The Todd Bridges Podcast
1 hour 7 minutes
1 month ago
'Ducky' from the Bronx: Louis Lombardi’s Unconventional Path to Hollywood - Ep. 44
Actor Louis Lombardi (The Sopranos, 24) gets real with Todd and Bettijo Bridges about trading a life of Bronx hustle for a Hollywood acting career, detailing how street smarts prepared him for mental rejection and why typecasting him as a mob guy is simply wrong.SUMMARYTodd and Bettijo Bridges sit down with actor, director, and storyteller Louis Lombardi (The Sopranos, 24, Natural Born Killers) for a raw and hilarious look at one of Hollywood’s most unconventional success stories.Louis takes us deep into his Bronx beginnings—where addiction, hustle, and family ties to organized crime (yes, that French Connection) were part of the daily soundtrack. He opens up about the heartbreak and chaos that followed his father’s death and his grandfather’s imprisonment—two life-altering moments that, oddly enough, gave him the break he needed to rewrite his own story.With zero patience for pretension, Louis shares how his “street degree” became his acting school, proving you can learn a lot more from the Bronx than from any drama conservatory. He talks about being perpetually typecast as a mobster, even though his résumé is stacked with roles as cops and FBI agents, and how his tough upbringing helped him shrug off Hollywood rejection like a pro.You’ll hear the wild story behind his first film, Amongst Friends—the cross-country drive to a then-obscure Sundance Film Festival, and the accidental encounter with Oliver Stone that changed everything. And, in classic full-circle fashion, Louis (known on the streets as “Ducky,” by the way) shares how he’s now breaking generational cycles and running a thriving pizza truck business with his daughter.HIGHLIGHTSLouis Lombardi addresses being typecast as a gangster versus his actual body of work. (2:53)The raw reality of growing up in the Bronx with family and friends involved in the French Connection drug ring. (6:57)How Louis used Backstage magazine and NYU student film sets as his free, unconventional acting school. (13:15)The profound realization that the streets prepared him for the mental rejection and toughness of Hollywood. (21:50)Louis recounts the "dang" moment when his friends got arrested, paving his way to the Sundance Film Festival. (33:23)How an accidental meeting with Oliver Stone led to his first union job in Natural Born Killers. (37:00)Discussing how his cooking skills—learned from the women in his life—have come full circle with his new pizza truck business. (49:44)The story of how his childhood nickname, "Ducky," stuck with him all the way to Hollywood. (54:42)Louis’s advice to aspiring actors to embrace modern technology and create their own content. (56:32)ToddFlix: Blacklist (1:03:40)LISTEN TO LEARNHow Louis earned his Bronx nickname “Ducky” — and the story behind it.How to turn a rough start into rocket fuel for whatever you’re chasing.Bronx mindset vs. Hollywood mindset (and how to thrive in both).How breaking the cycle of addiction and crime changes everything for the next generation.If you’re ready for a masterclass in grit, destiny, and why rejection’s just part of the hustle, hit play now—and then hunt down Louis’s pizza truck for a slice of that Bronx-born hustle!Follow on Instagram:  Todd @toddbridges & Bettijo @pagingsupermom--------------------© 2024 Loop 101 MediaDANG! is produced by Loop 101 Media, Bettijo Bridges, Todd Bridges & Attalie AnneFor more information contact info@loop101media.com
DANG! The Todd Bridges Podcast
How do you support someone struggling with addiction without enabling them? In this episode of DANG!, Todd Bridges and Bettijo sit down with addiction expert Dr. Brian Samford to tackle this tough question and more, sharing practical, hope-filled advice on how to walk alongside someone you love with equal parts accountability and compassion—and why “tough love” is often just another way of saying true love.SUMMARYAddiction doesn’t just hijack one person’s life—it drags the whole family into the chaos. In this raw, honest episode, Todd and Bettijo sit down with addiction expert Dr. Brian Samford, Chief Clinical Officer of The Arbor treatment center in Texas,  to talk about what actually creates lasting change, why you can’t force someone into recovery, and how to love an addict without losing yourself. Brian shares a powerful story from his clinical work about a longtime client who only revealed deep childhood trauma years into treatment—when she was finally ready—driving home a hard truth: recovery runs on the addict’s timeline, not ours.Together they dig into the messy family side of addiction: the guilt, the rescuing, the “If I don’t fix this, who will?” spiral. Brian explains why constantly stepping in—paying the fines, cleaning up the messes, smoothing everything over—might feel loving, but actually “disables” the person you’re trying to help. The key? Lead with genuine love, then add real accountability and clear boundaries. You can support someone’s sobriety, but you can’t drag them through a 12-Step program—or any kind of recovery—until they’re willing.HIGHLIGHTSWhat it’s like being Chief Clinical Officer of The Arbor treatment center (1:09)Dr. Samford shares his favorite strategy for getting reluctant patients to participate: bringing the group meeting to the client's bed! (3:03)How Brian’s recovery journey began at age 24 with a counselor who truly cared, inspiring him to help others. (4:45)Parental Sabotage: How well-meaning parents now act as the greatest barrier by constantly rescuing and enabling adult children. (10:07)Maybe the hardest part: letting go of your timeline for their recovery. (37:19)Brian’s formula for families: Accountability + Compassion = Real Love. (43:08)That thin line between loving someone and enabling—and how “helping” too much can actually disable growth. (44:14)ToddFlix: Tracker and using every tool you’ve got to stay sober. (44:42)Shows like Breaking Bad and Good Girls show “normal” people pulled into the underworld. (49:19)LISTEN TO LEARNWhy length of treatment matters so much.How to walk the tightrope between accountability and compassion in a family affected by addiction.How Todd Bridges uses lessons from the TV show Tracker—and radical surrender—to help sustain 32 years of sobriety.If you’re exhausted from trying to control your family’s chaos, here’s the secret: true love means setting boundaries and holding people accountable—and if that sounds too hard, just remember what happens when you pray for patience. Hit play!Follow on Instagram:  Todd @toddbridges & Bettijo @pagingsupermom--------------------© 2025 Loop 101 MediaDANG! is produced by Loop 101 Media, Bettijo Bridges, Todd Bridges & Attalie AnneFor more information contact info@loop101media.com