This week on Dare to Talk: Unfiltered, Whitney and Liz sit down with Gudeh, the creator the internet thinks it knows but has never actually heard speak.For the first time, she opens up about being misunderstood online, the pressure to look “perfect,” the toxic beauty standards put on women, and how she rebuilt her confidence after going viral for the wrong reasons.The girls get into relationships, heartbreak, family, identity… and the parts of womanhood social media never shows.00:00 – Gudeh finally joins the girls 🔥 01:05 – “People think they know me… they don’t.” 03:10 – Being misunderstood online & going viral for the wrong reasons 05:20 – The pressure to look perfect on social media 07:45 – Confidence, glow-ups & being judged before you speak 10:30 – Whitney asks: “Do you ever feel guilty for putting yourself first?” 12:50 – Gudeh on friendships, boundaries & protecting your peace 15:15 – Heartbreak that changed her whole mindset 💔 17:40 – Expectations vs reality of being a ‘pretty girl’ online 19:55 – Colourism, comparison & beauty standards 22:10 – The importance of female friendships 24:20 – Gudeh’s confession: what she’s never said publicly 27:00 – Childhood stories & how culture shaped her 29:40 – Why she stopped caring what people think 32:20 – Dating, talking stages & red flags 🚩 35:10 – The “talking to five guys” debate 37:55 – Why women shrink themselves in relationships 40:25 – The moment that made her rebuild her confidence 42:40 – Final thoughts: self-love, growth & being misunderstoodFollow Whitney!https://www.instagram.com/whitbrownsx/Follow Liz!https://www.instagram.com/lizbrowns/Watch the pod on YouTube!https://youtube.com/@WhitneyAdebayo?si=JknIBGfvMn1MusMrCredits:Filmed & Edited by HAMLIN STUDIOS: https://www.instagram.com/hamlinstudios/?hl=en-gb