Can collaborative law actually work? You and your ex can barely stand speaking to one another so how could you actually be in a collaborative process together? What if I told you that it could work even in high conflict cases, but that there are actually things you need to be on the lookout for to ensure it works effectively?   This is Part 2, following episode #62, and I'm continuing the conversation with NY family law attorney, Jackie Caputo, who highlights that collaborative divorce is not a one-size-fits-all approach and while it may not be suitable in all circumstances, it certainly can work in a wide array of cases (including high conflict) and provide a potentially healthier and more constructive framework.   There's a common misconception that in order for collaborative law to work, everyone has to be amicable and unfortunately it's even a misconception that some attorneys have if they haven't been properly trained on the process. This discussion will guide you in what you need to know to set yourself, and your case, up for the best possible outcome. You'll learn what it is you need from the representation on both sides of the table for this to work properly and the questions to ask to help you choose the right attorney for the job.     For more information on the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative and to access the free resource center, please visit https://peaceofminddivorce.info    Jamie Milam is a divorcée, Realtor®, Certified Divorce Specialist®, and aligned strategy enthusiast.  CONNECT WITH JAMIE: https://JamieMilam.com  Instagram | LinkedIn   Jackie Caputo is an Associate Attorney at Joseph Law Group in in New York, specializing in Mediation and Collaborative Divorce Law.   - - -  Episode Moments: 00:00 Understanding Who Collaborative Law May Work For 02:26 The Importance of Choosing the Right Divorce Strategy 05:32 The Misconceptions Surrounding Collaborative Law 07:39 The Importance of Proper Training in Collaborative Law 10:57 Questions to Ask to Help You Choose the Right Collaborative Law Attorney 14:11 The Paradigm Shift of Collaborative Law 18:51 Making the Right Decision for You     DISCLAIMER: The commentary on this podcast is not intended to serve as or replace professional legal, financial or medical advice. While the insights may have wide applicability, listeners should consult with an attorney, CPA, financial advisor, therapist or physician in your state to obtain advice with respect to your particular issue and/or case.