I wrote this speech to shine a light on male pain and struggle, because I feel there’s a growing gap — especially online — between the genders. Both sides are hurting, and both struggle to truly understand the other’s pain. Since I’m a man, I can only speak from that side of the experience. Social media, in particular, has become increasingly toxic toward men — often invalidating their feelings, labeling them as privileged, or painting them solely as beneficiaries of the patriarchy. While there are structural issues and outdated mindsets that need to shift, I believe no one grows from a place of blame and shame. There are countless young men out there — playing video games all day, isolated, without close friends — using porn as just one way to numb the pain. Many of them have grown up without role models or mentors, trying to figure it out all on their own. I know how that feels. Because I was one of them. I don’t believe the world becomes a better place by constantly calling men out — that cycle only deepens the wounds, and in the end, it hurts women too. I believe in a world where men receive the mentorship and emotional guidance they’ve longed for. Where they are supported in becoming the best, most grounded, and safest versions of themselves. And I believe that this is what will ultimately make the world a more beautiful place — for all of us.