What does it mean to be hard-hearted?  It means being incapable of being moved to pity or tenderness.  Literally, not showing love.  We have to get to the heart of the matter when we are dealing with emotional healing.  I share how my hard heartedness left me not receiving or giving love as a result of laws that I made for my self as a child.   If you're a person that deals with hardness in your heart, ask God to open your heart to soften it, so you can begin the process to emotional wholeness and healing.  Listen and share.