You’ve been told that mums don’t show up because they’re afraid of being judged.
But what if fear isn’t the real reason?
What if the actual block is that you’re no longer sure who’s doing the showing up?

In this intimate, late-evening recording, I talk about visibility from a place no one prepares you for:
The messy middle.
The in-between.
That liminal space after a major identity shift — like motherhood, midlife, or a business reinvention — where your voice feels distant and your message… unclear.

We explore:

✔️ Why visibility blocks are often identity blocks
✔️ The 3 stages of transformation: separation, liminality, reintegration
✔️ Why you might feel muted — even if you were once confident and clear
✔️ The business beliefs that no longer fit post-motherhood (and what’s replacing them)
✔️ Why voice notes and raw reflections can help you reconnect with yourself
✔️ The nervous system truth no one tells you: “Safety comes before strategy.”

This episode isn’t about bouncing back or powering through.
It’s about naming the invisible — and giving yourself permission to be seen before you have it all figured out.

🧠 Mentioned in this episode:
🎧 Find Her Again™ – Free 7-Day Voice Note Journey
A gentle space to reconnect with your voice, identity and visibility — on your terms.

🧭 Ready to navigate the in-between with support?

DM me @firestartermum or email firestartermum@gmail.com and let me know where you are on your identity journey.

You don’t have to skip the messy middle.
It’s where your magnetism lives.

Find Your Fire & Shine!

Gosia x