What if the life you think you chose was actually a life built from other people’s expectations, beliefs, fears, and conditioning? In this raw and deeply personal episode, I share my own journey of realising that more than 90% of the choices I was making in my old business weren’t truly mine. I open up about the moment everything cracked, why I walked away from my old world, and what it really looks like to strip back the layers and come home to your true self.
This episode explores what it means to become disconnected from your soul, how childhood, mentors, society and even the coaching industry can quietly shape your decisions, and why so many successful business owners feel confused, stuck or unfulfilled even when “everything looks good” on the outside. I also take you inside the powerful 40-day vortex I entered, the ancient and energetic principles behind it, and how reconnection, clarity, abundance and visibility began to flow when I rooted into the frequency of love and reconnected with what my soul truly wanted.
If you feel like something in your life isn’t quite aligned, if you’ve outgrown the person you’ve been, or if you know there is a truer, more powerful version of you waiting to emerge - this episode is your invitation to listen, remember, and return to yourself.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Why 90% of Your Choices Aren’t Really Yours (The Illusion of Choice)
00:44 From Fitness Coach to Soul-Led Work: My Identity Crisis
08:10 How I Shifted into Manifestation & Energetic Work
11:38 How to Connect to Your Core Self (And Why Most People Don’t)
21:33 Breaking Programming & Reclaiming Your True Self
26:57 How to Make Aligned Decisions & Find Real Clarity