🎙️ Welcome back, friends! Join us for another exciting episode of Gin and Talkin'. On this episode, we talk about pick me girls and guys suffering from nice guy syndrome. Both are the opposite sides of the same coin. This was generated: "Pick Me Girls" and "Nice Guys" are terms used to describe specific dating behaviors and the challenges that come with them, each revealing unique aspects of modern romantic dynamics. "Pick Me Girls" are individuals who seek validation by presenting themselves as exceptionally agreeable, low-maintenance, or self-deprecating compared to others. They often try to differentiate themselves from perceived stereotypes or from other women by downplaying their own needs and desires, believing that this approach will make them the ideal choice in the eyes of potential partners. This behavior is driven by a desire to stand out and be chosen, but it can sometimes lead to frustration and dissatisfaction if their true needs and desires are not genuinely addressed or respected in the relationship. In contrast, "Nice Guys" are characterized by their kindness, respectfulness, and genuine intentions. They believe that their positive traits should naturally lead to romantic success and expect that their kindness will be reciprocated with affection and commitment. However, "Nice Guys" often find themselves feeling overlooked or misunderstood when their efforts do not yield the expected results. This can lead to feelings of frustration, resentment, and a sense of entitlement, which are commonly referred to as Nice Guy Syndrome. They may struggle with the perception that their genuine behavior should automatically lead to romantic rewards, leading to disappointment when it doesn’t. Get your favourite snacks or start doing your dishes, or if you are commuting, just sit tight. Your podcast buddies are here! Happy listening! 🔔 Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell icon to never miss an episode of Gin and Talkin'! Join the conversation in the comments below—what do you think about Singapore's caning punishment law? Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:24 Pick me girls 03:14 When a girl hit on Nitisha 08:00 How do you know if someone is the one? 08:38 Difference in how men and women date 13:14 Nitisha's anti nap alarm 15:57 Green flags red flags 19:38 Travelling together is a good litmus test 22:01 Sleepovers can break friendships 25:27 Nice guy syndrome 29:50 Why some breakups don't hurt? 31:20 Why people want something long term post 25? 33:24 Dating as a bi girl 37:40 Story where Nitin is a superhero 46:10 Juno enters 46:40 Outro