What defines a ‘pick me’ girl? Why their need for male validation can often get toxic? In this episode, we dive deep into the world of ‘pick me’ and the flawed system that pits women against each other for male validation. We delve into the cultural and societal factors that encourage these behaviors, shedding light on how they undermine genuine connections among women. Join us as we break down stereotypes, share personal experiences, and celebrate the strength of women supporting women and tell you how to not fall into this social trap and how embracing true sisterhood is much more fulfilling. 00:00 - Teaser 00:47 - Intro 01:51 - So who is a pick me girl? 02:41 - Why we love to hate pick me girls 04:40 - Back when we got ‘picked’ 06:51 - ‘Pick me’s from out past life 09:08 - She’s ‘special’ cause ‘not like other girls’ 12:31 - Pick mes are also victims of patriarchy 13:35 - Adult pick mes are the worst.. ughh! 18:34 - The ‘women are bad drivers’ stereotype needs to DIE! 22:33 - We LOVE our girlfriends!!!! 24:59 - Bestest pick mes from the internet 30:31 - Why are you demonising ‘girlie’ things ya? 32:55 - What happens when a pick me gets picked 36:42 - More pick mes from the interwebzz 38:57 - It’s not you. The system sux! 39:35 - Men, do better ya. Empathise! 40:45 - Pick me analogies 43:32 - How not to be a pick me Podcast Mentioned Alpha men - https://youtu.be/Bb8a0z8nxi0?si=vb0E8vG9tikje_QR Men Fetishising Lesbians - https://youtu.be/yX4n50aw2pQ?si=yP5F8bdLVCJTC5QI LINKS- https://youtu.be/ax4Hu1zuGkI?si=VRxJTaDilp40tRB4 https://www.reddit.com/r/InstaCelebsGossip/s/PwRWk9BlzW https://shaadi.org/dowry-calculator/ https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5OQg5cLTy4/?igsh=NmozeHBxamU0dDNv https://youtu.be/pvKe0c007Cc?si=1thYA--U3eqxQc_N https://youtu.be/m8n7sgc3qbc?si=o63jxy5cRJojDqIO https://youtu.be/ADC63CpEAEA?si=yWLvhO1IM0lgRkfN #podcast #podcastshow
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