Modern Christian marriages are quietly collapsing—and most churches refuse to talk about why.

In this episode, we break down how modern “servant leadership” teaching has distorted biblical headship, inverted authority, and unintentionally fueled sexless marriages, resentment, and rising porn use among Christian men.

Drawing from real conversations, hard data, and Scripture, we connect the dots between:

• Sexless marriages in the church

• Male passivity and loss of attraction

• Emotional caretaking masquerading as leadership

• Why desire doesn’t disappear—it relocates

• The porn epidemic among married Christian men

• How purity culture and sexual shame cripple intimacy

• Why many marriages look holy in public but are dead in private

This is not about attacking women or excusing bad behavior. It’s about telling the truth the church won’t say out loud: when leadership is stripped from men and desire is framed as sin, marriages don’t become godly—they become passionless.

If you’ve ever wondered why:

• Christian men feel emasculated

• Christian women feel disconnected

• Intimacy disappears after “I do”

• Porn becomes the silent outlet

• Pastoral advice feels disconnected from real marriage dynamics

This episode will challenge everything you’ve been taught.

⚠️ This conversation is direct, uncomfortable, and necessary.