In this session we meet Sam who learns more about the Part of her who eats in secret, and how her past continues to inform the present. There is a shift as she discovers the positive intention of one of her critical Parts, creating space for compassion and connection inside. Sam has some knowledge of Parts and this is her first experience being guided to go inside and connect with her Parts.
WHO SHOWED UP
Key Parts
Other Parts
WHAT I NOTICED…
I noticed a number of my Self Like Parts and Therapists Parts were present during this session and at times I felt quite blended with these Parts. Although I was working on unblending throughout the session, I suspect the lack of Self Energy coming from my system impacted Sam and her Parts. There were at times more managerial Self Like Parts present in Sam's system.
I often feel torn when Self Like Parts show up in the other person. Self Like Parts are not Self, yet have some self energy, bring gifts and have value. A Part of me believes they can truly be enough for now (until it feels safe enough for Parts to connect more fully with Self). Another Part of me holds judgement that Self Like Parts are not ‘as good as’ Self and that if Self Like Parts are present we are not 'getting it right'. That judgement brought some shame to my system which I needed to attend to after the session.
WHAT I’D DO DIFFERENTLY…
Early in the session Sam shared her experience of eating in secret when she was younger and the fear she experienced of being discovered. This was a missed opportunity to offer some compassion to this younger Part and develop the Self to Part relationship.
There was a brief mention of a Part who believes other people think it's not capable. I’m curious about why I didn’t explore this further as this felt an important trailhead to a core belief.
I would like to have asked Sam to pause at a various stages in the session so I could spend some time connecting with my Parts and creating more space for them so I could be more fully present with her.
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