
In this episode of Gross Potential, I sat down with psychologist Mahin Kohneh to break down the unwritten rules of influence — the psychological forces that shape trust, attraction, identity, and human behavior.
Mahin explains how naming emotions builds instant trust, how identity labeling changes behavior, and why most people struggle with influence because they focus on themselves instead of others.
If you want to understand people better, this episode exploring human nature will change the game for you...
00:00:00: Why Understanding Human Nature Changes Everything
00:03:00: How Childhood Shapes Identity
00:15:06: Parent Dynamics That Define Adult Relationships
00:18:04: Why We’re Attracted to the Wrong People
00:20:57: The Psychology of Trust & Connection
00:23:59: How to Make a Powerful First Impression
00:33:17: Why Positive Observations Build Instant Rapport
00:36:18: What Real Connection Actually Feels Like
00:37:01: Understanding Emotions in Conversation
00:40:15: Why Naming Emotions Builds Trust
00:42:30: How Identity Labeling Changes Behavior
00:49:11: Overcoming Social Anxiety
00:56:50: The Likeability Shift (Focus on Others)
01:01:25: Non-Verbal Cues That Signal Confidence
01:11:50: Influence & Persuasion Explained
01:12:16: How to Make People Open Up Naturally
01:21:09: Ethical Persuasion (Not Manipulation)
01:32:52: Active Listening & Genuine Curiosity
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