It's Spotify Wrapped time. But with all the controversy surrounding the music streaming giant this year, are attitudes towards this cultural tradition changing?  And TikTok has apologised after several Black creators reported racism at its awards event. What does this all say about how the media treat people of colour?  Also, we're asking if arguing is a healthy part of a relationship after Travis Kelce revealed he and Taylor Swift never do it.  Plus, is it easier to make friends in the city or the country?  Host Dave Marchese is joined by 7NEWS Sydney's Daniel Healion and culture writer Maggie Zhou.  Get the whole story from hack: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok Subscribe to the hack podcast Listen on the triple j app or on your radio live every weeknight at 5:30pm