Why do so many women hit 40 and blame the man they spent their twenties and thirties with? Not the career that didn't pan out. Not the choices they made. The man.Today I'm breaking down the most expensive lie women tell themselves: "I'll figure out what I want later."🔥 The Two Paths Women Regret:Path 1: Career First• 25-35: Building career, delaying marriage• 35+: Realizing biology doesn't care about promotions• Peak fertility (20-30) overlaps with career building (25-35)• Then they blame the man for "not telling them" - but he didPath 2: "Finding Myself"• Spending years in relationships they're "not sure about"• Using men as placeholders while they "explore"• Discovering they wanted traditional things all along• Then blaming the man for "wasting their youth"What I Cover:• Why the "career vs kids" crisis only exists with the wrong man• The Asian women phenomenon: cultural pressure + feminism = paralysis• How "finding yourself" is code for "wasting both our time"• Master's experience: she left, was happy about it, but blamed him anyway• Why the right man changes the entire equation• Chapter 23: Three women who chose escape routes over transformationThe Uncomfortable Truth:With the wrong man, everything feels like sacrifice. Career vs kids becomes a war. Every decision builds resentment.With the right man: his leadership + your trust = no regret. It's not either/or anymore. It's OUR timeline, OUR plan.Here's What Nobody Talks About:- You can't blame a man for not reading your mind when you haven't made it up yet- Most women discover they wanted traditional things all along- But they spent a decade chasing what they THOUGHT they should want- Career success that doesn't fulfill them- Independence that feels lonely- Options that led to paralysisThe Asian Women Pattern:Multiple women I know:• Cultural pressure to achieve + modern feminist messaging• Spend 20s/30s with men they're "not sure about"• Hit biological deadline around 35• Suddenly: "He wasted my youth!"• No - YOU chose not to decide for a decadeMaster's Experience:He stayed in a relationship through her career focus. She eventually left, was "happy about it." He doesn't regret the time - he moved on. But she blamed HIM for "wasting her youth." You can't get back time, but you CAN stop blaming others for your choices.📖 Chapter 23 Q&A: The Price They Wouldn't PayThree women Master and I mentored:• Liliosa - Poet with $90k debt who went back to sex work• Maya - Musician who chose chaos over structure (now at marijuana dispensary)• Beatriz - Creator who couldn't let go of her mother's authorityThey all had clear paths forward. They chose to keep escape routes instead. Just like women who keep one foot out of relationships, then blame the man when it doesn't work.The Connection:These women wanted transformation WITHOUT commitment. Women who regret their thirties wanted marriage/family WITHOUT choosing the right man and trusting him completely.The price is everything. And most women won't pay it.Why This Matters:The women who regret their thirties made one critical mistake: they chose men they didn't trust enough to fully commit to, then blamed those men for their own hesitation.Real anxiety about pregnancy and careers exists. But with the RIGHT man, it's not a crisis - it's a partnership. The issue isn't "can I have both" - it's "did I choose the right partner."📖 Questions We Answer:• Why do women blame men instead of their own choices?• How is "finding yourself" actually wasting everyone's time?• What changes when you find the right man?• How does Chapter 23 connect to women's regret?Statistics & Reality:• Peak female fertility: ages 20-32 (drops significantly after 35)• Most common life regret for women: "not having children earlier"• Career satisfaction peaks at different times than family formation• Biology doesn't pause while you "explore your options"Join Happy Submissive Movement (FREE):https://happysubmissive.comWhat You Get:• Free community access (