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I’m Kelly Siegel, and this is Harder than Life. A podcast about self-love, self-awareness, business, and health. We tell outrageous stories and boil everything down to simple, practical advice you can start using today. Let’s get living!
Identity lag is real and it’s one of the hardest parts of growth.
It’s that uncomfortable space where you’ve outgrown who you were, but the world still treats you like your old self.
In this Hard Reset episode, Kelly Siegel breaks down why identity lag happens, why it feels so damn frustrating, and how to keep leveling up even when people don’t believe in (or understand) the new you yet.
If you’re evolving, healing, getting disciplined, or changing your life but others can’t see it, this episode will help you stay the course and stop shrinking back into the person you’ve already outgrown.
Your new identity is built through repetition, discipline, and proof, not external validation.
Key Takeaways
🟥 Identity lag is normal
🟥 Most people get stuck by waiting for others to catch up.
🟥 You must keep becoming the new version of yourself even when no one sees it yet.
🟥 The right people will either adjust… or disappear. Both are blessings.
🟥 Confidence comes from stacking proof, not seeking permission.
(00:00) Intro
(00:09) Identity Lag: What It Looks Like
(00:37) Identity Lag: What It Feels Like
(01:20) Identity Lag: How To Overcome It
(02:11) Up Next on HTL
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Harder Than Life
I’m Kelly Siegel, and this is Harder than Life. A podcast about self-love, self-awareness, business, and health. We tell outrageous stories and boil everything down to simple, practical advice you can start using today. Let’s get living!
