This one has a story listener. If you are like Tressa, you do not know it prior to this episode and if you are like Joey, you think everything is fine. We won't give it away here, in the description, but we guarantee you wanna get in on this "debate." Sara did a thing, Adia felt a certain way about it (as did Sara) and the results are a chart topping song and a common happening among friendships and love. What is love? What constitutes friendship? Are we born innocent and does it even matter? Gah Sara, stir up some emotion why don't ya??! Well, makes for a great Episode 42 for the lyrical breakdown best friend podcast anyway :) ALSO: will we -and by we we mean Tressa- coin a new term for "being without ability to choose to love" ... stay tuned.  Joey edit:  Joey doesn't believe that is what the new term is supposed to refer to.