When your relationship gets hard and messy, it’s tempting to blame him, wait on him to change, or let your emotions spiral around what he’s doing—or not doing. This episode is your reminder: it’s not about him. It’s about you. Your peace, your growth, and your healing are in your hands. In this conversation, I share deeply about the hardships of my marriage. Trust me, I get it. Let's take radical responsibility for ourselves, even when love feels uncertain. Because once you stop trying to change him and start showing up for you, everything changes.