In this episode, I break down why so many people cling to control and resist surrender—even when they say they want peace. Often, the false sense of safety we find in our jobs, routines, or titles keeps us stuck in survival mode. That “security” becomes a cage, convincing us we’re safe while quietly draining us. I’ll walk you through why this happens, how to recognize when you’re holding onto a false anchor, and what surrender actually looks like when it’s rooted in trust rather than fear.